I'm a 100% with you on this one, I couldnt get into shadow over blackmore for the same reasons.
Have you tried A New Life in Submission, by Zenkuro? Also, you could try Black Rose Hotel by the same author. The development is very slow, but the art is peak for me.
If you like 3D models, Nothing is Forever is a no brainer. There's at least three heavily femdom oriented characters, Kim, Deb and Emma. Loved the scenes with Kim.
You could also try Mistresses of the Forest! I loved the writing.
Edit: well I should have read after your post, I basically reposted Mister M