Recommending Femdom Finder 2.0

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Do you love femdom?

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akasubjoe

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Hi, new user here -- I noticed that the OP said they're not updating the spreadsheet. Can someone suggest a way of finding any recommended femdom games that it doesn't include? Not sure whether trawling through every post in this thread is the best way, but if there isn't an easier way, I guess I could do that
 
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akasubjoe

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Hi, new user here -- I noticed that the OP said they're not updating the spreadsheet. Can someone suggest a way of finding any recommended femdom games that it doesn't include? Not sure whether trawling through every post in this thread is the best way, but if there isn't an easier way, I guess I could do that
I did a search for "New Game" in this thread and found a few links, thanks to J1215 specially!
 

J1215

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Is there any femdom game where the focus is on eroticism and not on....fetishes? Also where the domme actually finds the sub attractive and have piv sex together? It's weirdly hard to find. Most of them are based on emasculation for some reason. Maybe like the dynamic between Natalie and Sub MC in Bound by Lust.

Also why the fuck do people think coitus cannot exist in a femdom dynamic?
 
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I've wondered this too. You have games where the MC gets cucked and the "domme" is getting dicked down by "BBC" that treat her like a bitch, and somehow that's being "dominant" and "dominant women want cock sometimes too". How is her getting humiliated by other men femdom? But femdom fans get so hostile and defensive over anything being pointed out. To some extent I even understand why "normies" as some call them hate femdom so much, I can't stand these "femdom fans" myself and I enjoy femdom.

Cuckolding is kind of its own thing, and most NTR fans I've seen acknowledge that, so I don't really mind them. Though it kind of annoys me when maledom fans get pissed at these games for existing as if anyone forced these idiots to play them, I'm mostly tired of psychological torture stuff like Karlsson's Gambit, Vicious Circle, or fetish-heavy stuff like Domina and Tower of Trample. It's like they associate femdom with liking anything but pussy and breasts or being treated like disposable trash for not being dominant enough. This is coming from someone who likes humiliation. Femdom is about being dominated; it's not about "not being manly." It's kind of giving the message that femdom is only for men with low confidence and objectifying perverts. Also, these games look ugly af lol. I wish there were more femdom focused games with visuals like Race of Life.

I don't want to yuck anyone's yums, but it also pisses me off how much these games dominate the femdom market.

There are different flavors and it's broad, but the key point is dominant, assertive women enjoying themselves using a man (or woman in lezdom--which to me is unique enough to have its own descriptor). If there's NTR it's NTR, if its cuckold its cuckold, if it's violence pron it's violence pron, torture porn is torture porn etc. They can all be within a femdom context, but they are not somehow more femdom than a woman jumping on top of her husband, pinning him down, and fucking his brains out.
It's because they associate "getting pussy" with "being strong and worthy" and not something that both party enjoys.

I'd definitely like to see more sexually aggressive, female pleasure focused femdom games. FemMC or otherwise. But they are exceedingly rare. The oddest thing is that this is the one area where in an LTR generally speaking most women as they gain confidence and comfort tend to get better at expressing their own wants and desires, it should be even easier in a video game to get to that, but it's like the vast majority of devs and players have zero real life experience in anything. But can that really be the case? It seems unfathomable, so it's probably a case of just catering to that demographic of player and not trying anything else. Femdom games themselves are an extreme niche after all, and these games do mostly target self unaware losers, maybe that's all there is enough for it to be financially viable at all.
TBH, I wouldn't want realism in my games either. The whole appeal of porn games is that they're unrealistic to me. The problem with me is what these games represent. Though yes, if you want to cater to a niche audience, you have to have a lot of free time and money because these games are hard to make, and if you can't make good cash out of them, you'll probably have to make them as a hobby. I mean the whole adult gaming industry is already underground enough to begin with.
 
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Tom Aspinall

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Is there any femdom game where the focus is on eroticism and not on....fetishes? Also where the domme actually finds the sub attractive and have piv sex together? It's weirdly hard to find. Most of them are based on emasculation for some reason. Maybe like the dynamic between Natalie and Sub MC in Bound by Lust.

Also why the fuck do people think coitus cannot exist in a femdom dynamic?
Plenty of femdom games have vaginal, you're just looking at the wrong games, and imo "woman on top" as the only catch is too vanilla, it's pretty common to see people here complain about games being tagged as femdom because a woman initiated or anything of the sort.

I've wondered this too. You have games where the MC gets cucked and the "domme" is getting dicked down by "BBC" that treat her like a bitch, and somehow that's being "dominant" and "dominant women want cock sometimes too". How is her getting humiliated by other men femdom? But femdom fans get so hostile and defensive over anything being pointed out. To some extent I even understand why "normies" as some call them hate femdom so much, I can't stand these "femdom fans" myself and I enjoy femdom.
It sounds like you're playing NTR games, obviously people in those threads are gonna defend it, but most people do not associate it with femdom.
 

Bielan24

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I remember playing an Asian game in which we play the role of a brother or sister who was kidnapped by a succubus, a nekomata, and a slime. They are all women. Our task is to escape from their estate. When I played this game it was still in development, now I would like to go back to it but I don't remember what it was called. I was hoping to find her here, but she's gone. Does anyone remember the title of this game?
 
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Plenty of femdom games have vaginal, you're just looking at the wrong games, and imo "woman on top" as the only catch is too vanilla, it's pretty common to see people here complain about games being tagged as femdom because a woman initiated or anything of the sort.
Look at the top 20 and tell me how many of them have PiV sex. Anyway, that's not the main part of my complaint. It's the fact that there's not much mutual attraction between the sub and domme in most femdom games, or it's just not shown enough, and they're mostly too fetishistic. I'm aware of the femdom tag being too liberally used, hence why I gave the Natalie example, as it obviously has a femdom dynamic.

Seriously, though, if you know any games like that, I would appreciate it.
 

akasubjoe

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Is there any femdom game where the focus is on eroticism and not on....fetishes? Also where the domme actually finds the sub attractive and have piv sex together? It's weirdly hard to find. Most of them are based on emasculation for some reason. Maybe like the dynamic between Natalie and Sub MC in Bound by Lust.

Also why the fuck do people think coitus cannot exist in a femdom dynamic?
Femdom Wife Game - Zoe, although weak on story, fits the bill. At one point Zoe will ask the MC if he's okay with Pegging, and NTR. Your choice. After that, she's pretty much a loving, but demanding fiancee/wife. Some people might find the game grindy and boring, but for me it's really hot.
Boring Days, another grindy game, has a similar, broadly vanilla but progressively D/s relationship between the MC (who's a bit of an asshole), and his wife. I like that too.
 

Sunshaded

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Minor report from me on a ~30-minute trial for an in-development Japanese RPG Maker game that's slightly atypical, if anyone is interested. It's called Women's Sovereign Nation of Altier (Joken Kokka Altier). It just recently received an English translation, and I checked and found it's accurate. Themes are matriarchy, humiliation, pet play, transfur.

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Azure Sun

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I remember playing an Asian game in which we play the role of a brother or sister who was kidnapped by a succubus, a nekomata, and a slime. They are all women. Our task is to escape from their estate. When I played this game it was still in development, now I would like to go back to it but I don't remember what it was called. I was hoping to find her here, but she's gone. Does anyone remember the title of this game?
Sounds like Captive Alstroemeria (circle-tekua), same group that made Lilith in Nightmare.
 
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Tom Aspinall

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Look at the top 20 and tell me how many of them have PiV sex. Anyway, that's not the main part of my complaint. It's the fact that there's not much mutual attraction between the sub and domme in most femdom games, or it's just not shown enough, and they're mostly too fetishistic. I'm aware of the femdom tag being too liberally used, hence why I gave the Natalie example, as it obviously has a femdom dynamic.

Seriously, though, if you know any games like that, I would appreciate it.
If you're basing your choices on a list you should probably expect something more fetishistic in nature, I would never rank some milquetoast shit as a top femdom game of all time.

Besides, of those I have played Monster Girl Dreams should fit your bill pretty well. Karlsson's Gambit has a lot of PiV previews but I haven't played.

If you're basing your choices on the domme finding the sub attractive, there's no shortage of games where you get spontaneously raped. Even going as far back MGQ and the like.

The whole not liking pussy and breasts is also just another generalization, there's even 62studio on DLsite who's niche is making breast only games. It's just that it can't carry usually carry a femdom game by itself because that's everywhere anyways. But it' s present in most femdom games I have played.

Some fetishes are usually associated with a dom/sub dynamic by default, getting spat on as the domme is quite strange for example.
 
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