I've got to second this. While I am personally very into the rape fantasy stuff myself, and I do agree that a lot of the time in games it could be done as a toggleable option, sometimes, as in this case, I think it's too baked into the basic premise.
As I said in a prior comment, I think this game isn't focused enough on the non/dub-con. Almost all of the encounters have easy, almost magical escape buttons. In order to experience the rape stuff this game is pretty much centered on, you already have to opt in. It's not fun for someone like me, who wants that illusion of no control that a good rape fantasy gives you. A lot of it comes down to framing, but it's kind of not rape fantasy, really, whenever you have that escape button.
Hell, even running out of Willpower just means you go home, not that you can no longer resist the various advances. All the stuff that was added to the waitress job is purely consensual, and there are no penalties for denying customers or telling them off for groping you. It feels very strange given the world the dev wants to set up here.
If anything, this game needs to sort out it's identity. I wonder if it playing it safe with the rape fantasy despite the premise is due to Patreon's rules? I don't know. I hope the dev sorts it out, though: commit to the premise and the setting, ditching Patreon if needed, or rewrite things and make a game that's as consensual as Patreon requires.