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Oh that's easy. Her pleasure is the most important thing. If she's not fully enjoying herself I can't get off.So you have an idea in your head of the ideal hookup partner for a wife girlfriend to maximize her pleasure. What happens when the guy she would want opposes that vision? Would you compromise? Would you defer to her preferences? Would you insist on your own preferences?
i.e. you say you want a big muscley alpha guy for the girlfriend, what if she prefers a slim intellectual in bed? Would you defer? Does her pleasure trump the visual spectacle of the former?