Lena's LIs are almost 100% horrible human beings. They are kink bait.
Ian's LIs actually have some depth and character. They can be kinky.
It's always been an embarrassing gap between the two groups. One of the two M's is basically a blank slate club guy, and he default wins 2nd place after (good versions of) Ian, because every other candidate is supremely flawed. I don't know if the bar is that far down into the Earth's crust, or if shitty men is another kink EK is doing for some of the Patreon crowd.
At least throw Wen into the mix. He seems like a genuinely nice person, and he has his shit together. (single) Lena should bump into him leaving the gym some time.