1) I'm not sure that self defense argument would hold up in court,
it absolutely would.
ESPECIALLY so in the USA where you have a jury.
You need to convince 12 jurors to ALL unanimously vote guilty for you to be declared guilty.
At that early point in the story, Hunter hadn't done all the terrible things that keep getting mentioned. You can't justify actions using future events.
well, fair enough that it would be a lot harder to get acquitted in a scenario where all you have is your own word that he told you he is going to rape the girls and there is no drugged out girl and drug delivery method who can be tested for drugs.
2 & 3) If there's equity in the home, then yeah, Ophelia could probably sell it to at least cover her debts, but we don't actually know what she owes so it's hard to say.
a. dev never actually bothered telling us that the house is underwater. explicitly stating as such would have made it better. although still silly.
b. If the home is underwater. you should declare bankrupcy and then rent a
much smaller home at a size you can afford.
You got 4 able bodied people in the house. at least one of them should get a job.
And frankly I would rather move to a trailer park than literally help someone drug and rape my family members.
I also would not try to incest fuck my relatives IRL.
as mentioned, neither the harem nor the NTR is realistic. both are porn plots.
4) Ophelia does NOT have a (paying) job, she's been a stay-at-home mom since she was a teenager.
Huh. ok, well, I misremembered there.
Why does not a single person in the house have a job?
I am not talking high end stuff here. Even basic simple jobs would do.
5) Yes it was sarcasm, but also a popular reference.
I know. I recognized the sarcasm and I recognized the reference.
I am also saying that unironically, it would be super easy, barely an inconvenience.
The meme is about actually difficult to impossible things being glossed over.
Not basic shit like "get a job and spend less money"