Telling by the other reviews this is one of those games you either love or hate.
So I'll start about the sex scenes as that seems to be a sticking point in a lot of the reviews. You have two categories "common sex scenes" and "story sex scenes" a lot of the reviews here that rate this game negatively haven't seem to have uncovered the story sex scenes.
Basically common sex scenes are used for generic scenes (as well as the dialogue in the scene) basically for dating/random events like being groped on the street and then pulled to a corner and having sex with random stranger. Those scenes pull their dialogue and sex animations from a large pool of generic scenes which all generic and random encounter events use.
Then you have tailor made dialogue and sex animations specific for story events. These are really well made and obviously fit the scene perfectly. Using the character(s) of the story event and dialogue that fits the narrative of the story event.
Based on the reviews here it seems most people who rate this game negatively just mess around a bit, encounter a few random sex scenes and are annoyed to their generic nature. While missing out entirely on the quality story related scenes that fill this game.
An important note about the generic sex scenes is the dev was clever enough to match generic scenes to the type of generic scene you see. So for example if a generic event takes place in public toilets the generic sex scene will take place in such an environment and pose. While if it is in a back alley the game will take from a pool of scenes that fit a back alley event. This is a nice touch and really makes even the generic scenes feel much more suitable to what you as a player are experiencing.
Now in terms of gameplay before the addition of action point mode this was a negative for me but now that the dev lets you choose between dice rolling mode or action point mode the gameplay is much more fun for me. It will be personal preference what you will prefer but for me action point mode is far more entertaining as I have much more control over what my character is doing each day.
In terms of the actual story, well the title tells you it right away. Tomie is basically looking for a life partner. Her personal dream is to find Mr Perfect who looks good, treats her nice and is rich. Any girls dream right?
But as you as a player will find it is quite hard for a girl to find the right match. Now unlike "The Fixer" you don't see your beauty change visually on the character it is just a stat bar at the top while your character always remains the same. But this doesn't detract from the experience for me and it is fun doing activities that improve Tomie while also avoiding the dangers and pitfalls of daily life for your dream.
I think the only thing I did not like about this game is that by default Tomie starts as a non-virgin and you can undergo surgery to restore your hymen. I do feel that virginity would be more impactful if you could not restore it but that you started any new game with it.
The story events that you can encounter in this game have quite a big range and again each has their own unique sex and dialogue to go with it that really make achieving those pathways all the more rewarding.
If you are reading this and playing the game for the first time, I would say avoid using the cheats until your 5th play through or so as there are many hidden events for specific stat situations. Situations you will never encounter if you cheat as your stats will bypass those specific point requirements.
Getting money, improving your stats and trying to stay pure for routes where hymen is required (the surgery is expensive!) is where the fun in this game actually sits.
You can find guides on all the endings of the game in-game which is also great. The guides are short and sweet and tell you just enough information to know exactly how to achieve those endings.
While the game may come across as grindy at first I can vouch that it actually is not as grindy as it may appear as you will be encountering a large variety of events and those events are only getting better and more varied with each new update.
I've probably sunken about 10+ hours into this game already and at the moment I've achieved 11/39 endings that the game has to offer.