Reminder, the quest ritual WAS NOT created 'specifically for her', it was created as HOMAGE to her, if I had to guess it's probably something they did based off whatever lore she put into their heads about her origins, but it would make no sense that she NEEDED it, because countless other people have done that ritual aside from Kirito's group from what we saw XD If Administrator NEEDED Kirito to do it, then it would have failed because Kirito hilariously wasn't involved in shit at all, if she had actually needed Inoda she would have appeared in his dreams and told him to hurry his fat ass to do so ages ago because he's a massive pushover and apparently has even begged her sometimes, there is just no way she would have waited around for it to go so slow, it wouldn't make sense with how much she was hyping up her descend into the real world XP